tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-180837450723317985.post7851506109279618060..comments2022-09-05T18:21:12.762-04:00Comments on misconnecting in the city: Holey Underwear and Other Reasons I'm Still SingleAlexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07307198125776655273noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-180837450723317985.post-34147587182475604472007-10-12T21:05:00.000-04:002007-10-12T21:05:00.000-04:00probably because we have watched far too much!probably because we have watched far too much!Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07307198125776655273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-180837450723317985.post-73205213124339668262007-10-12T20:47:00.001-04:002007-10-12T20:47:00.001-04:00ps- why is this starting to sound more and more li...ps- why is this starting to sound more and more like a sound byte from satc?sashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14664577726915276793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-180837450723317985.post-80346443334812897542007-10-12T20:47:00.000-04:002007-10-12T20:47:00.000-04:00i don't know if talking yourself out is such a bad...i don't know if talking yourself out is such a bad idea. i mean if your gut isn't saying, 'he's all that and then some' is it worth trying to make it something? maybe a healthy amount of doubt is good. i mean we all have fantasy dialogues in our heads, but they're just fun, right? pretend? i long for that comfy, relaxed part of the relationship where i can wear the holey underwear and not shave for a month. this would be ok i think, but i long for it too soon- it's work to get there. and let's face it, once you go there, there's no going back right? so what's the rush? this can create unhealthy or at least unmet expectations. i think i try too hard sometimes to make the relationship what i think it should be. i am probably talking myself into things, when i should be talking myself out.sashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14664577726915276793noreply@blogger.com